the 4th date

it's been nearly two years since i last saw bernie. about one year since i last heard from him. he emailed me last year so this year, i decided it was my turn. turns out, he was going to be in town the following week. so we planned to have coffee and catch up.

"coffee" turned into "come up to the city and let's order take out." i went up to the city, he ordered take out and we caught up. well, we might have "caught up" more than expected, but it was fun. lots of fun. i discovered that we are both fans of the wedding present (one of his pandora stations). and i told him about the time i met their lead singer, david gedge, at a bimbo's show when he was in cinerama. speaking of which, the wedding present are playing at the independent next month.

bernie was cute, funny and clever. just how i remembered him.

my new do

after over a year of growing my hair out, i finally got a much needed cut & style. i am fabulous again thanks to gina, at faux salon (in dt campbell). she is the best!

daydream believer

venue: great american music hall
artist: the clientele and the wooden birds
who: ro
when: 9 march 2010 (tuesday)

i actually saw the clientele back in november of 2005 at the bottom of the hill. but for some reason, i didn't blog about it. i think it was because i was having problems with the ex. oh yeah, i tried breaking up with him in october and around or on my birthday later in november. we were in the city all day that day looking at rentals, shopping and sticking around to hang out with nigel and his girlfriend, at the time. if i weren't so tired by the time the band came on, i could have really appreciated them. i do remember that i was pleasantly surprised despite my utter exhaustion. plus, the bottom of the hill is one of the coolest venues in the city.

the wooden birds opened for them. i was very impressed with their female vocalist, leslie sisson. her vocals are amazing. the recorded stuff doesn't do her voice due justice. she is also much prettier in person and super nice. i really enjoyed their set and my brief chat with her at the merch table. andrew kenny is the lead vocalist. his vocal style is soft and pretty. a bit reminiscent of belle & sebastian but more folky. they are playing sxsw this year so if you are going, you ought to check them out.

generally, when i go to shows, i'm standing and can't see the band. so, i had no idea what alasdair maclean looked like. then this guy showed up on the stage before their set and the audience started clapping and whistling. ro confirmed who he was. he was nothing like i expected. the reason being that one of their songs (here comes the phantom) reminds me of the monkeys. that's right, as in davy jones and daydream believer. it's a little funny because he is very british. dry humour and all, when he is speaking. but when he sings, he turns into someone completely different. not only does he totally get into it, but he also does this little dance with certain songs. it's pretty fantastic and quite entertaining. overall, they put on a great show. i'm glad i had a seat with a nice view this time.

rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

man vs. teeth

location: san jose
artist: man vs. teeth
who: me, aka the band's assistant
when: 27 february 2010 (saturday)

last weekend, my very good friend joe was up for a gig. one that he would be playing. joe is the lead singer of man vs. teeth which is a great combination of electronic and dance with a touch of indie. joe's vocals have an amazing range from delicate highs to strong, bold lows. and what's inbetween could be anything from rock & roll to simply beautiful. reminds me a bit of alexis taylor from hot chip.

as most of my friends know, i love dancing. and if you give them a listen, you to will want to break out in a dance. if you see the video (to come... that i shot), you can see that i almost forget i'm filming as i had the urge to dance (when it gets a little shaky).

catch them on myspace and be a fan on facebook. you must check out their song, u aint 2 old. it's my favorite!

rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ hear them, dance to them, love them.

second pair of the year

these are mary jane, open toe wedges with a 3¼" heel. these were actually purchased last month so it was two in january. apparently, i was slippin' and trippin' (right, bob?) so hopefully, this catches me up... a litte bit.

1st pair of shoes in 2010

these are my very first pair of wedge boots. they are dark brown and have a 3" wedge heel. i love wedge heels. they are really comfy and as long as i'm not walking on uneven ground/surface, they are really solid and stable (as opposed to stiletto heels). i feel like i haven't purchased wedges in ages. in fact, i bought one pair of wedges in 2009. those white leather cork wedges are my shoes of 2009. i love them! in 2008, i bought two pairs of sandal wedges which i got such a good deal on. seriously. 2007 was a big year for wedges. i bought four pairs. 2006 brought only two pairs, both of which have been worn so much that i ought to throw them out. but i haven't, yet.

back to these... i feel like i am wearing futuristic combat boots. they make me feel tough, like i can walk through snow in them. and everyone knows what a big wuss i am with snow, or cold weather in general.

oops... i did it again, twice.

not quite the end of 2009 so these two make 10 pairs for the year. and yes, i bought them both on the same day.these are nearly 5" heels, my tallest heels yet. they are black with a wide-not-quite-ankle-strap-not-quite-mary-janes with a platform.and these are dark gray mary janes with a 4" wooden heel.

know better learn faster

venue: the independent
artist: thao nguyen + the get down stay down, the portland cello project w/ david schultz
who: john
when: 21 november 2009 (saturday)

last month, i went to my last show of 2009. and similar to the number of shoes i purchased, it came out to a low total of 9. in 2008, i went to a total of 17 concerts so 9 is quite sad for me. i actually saw thao back in september with ro. and had planned to see her while i was in chicago over halloween. unfortunately, it didn't work out. what's funny is that i was going to see thao in chicago with john (who lives in chicago) and ended up seeing them with him here.

before the show, we went to dinner with my friends, grace and bob. we ate at espetus churrascaria in the city. if you've never been there, it's a fancy brazilian steakhouse smorgasbord. all the m-m-m meat that you can eat. and i ate and ate and ate. i took a break and ate some more. i ate more than john did. in fact, i ate my money's worth and his! i think he was a little scared of me afterward. hahah.

after dinner, we walked grace and bob back to their place (also where we parked) and headed over to the independent. we got there early so we could get good seats. in my ripe old age, i find that i don't mind sitting through opening acts if i can secure a seat. normally, i don't care for a good view as i can't really see anything unless i'm on the second floor. the independent does not have a second floor that is open to the public. however, the areas next to the walls are spaces that are a few steps above ground level. and i was pleasantly surprised by the opening bands. david schultz started off the night. he was charmingly folky. next up was the portland cello project. i really didn't know what to expect when i realized it would be mostly if not purely an instrumental set (with the occasional vocalist stepping in). they did a bunch of instrumental covers but the most impressive of them, was the super mario brothers video game theme. it was very entertaining.

by the time thao came on, the venue was packed. it looked like a full house. she was so excited about being back in the city (it was the end of their tour). when i saw thao and the get down stay down play back in september, it was prior to the release of know better learn faster. they played one song (body) from the new album. back to the current show... seeing thao live is a treat. she is so uniquely energetic and genuine. i don't think i've seen many (or any) musicians move the way she does while playing her guitar. it's interesting because she doesn't have the prettiest voice out there, nor are her lyrics particularly thought-provoking. what she does well is how she combines her vocals and the music (with the help of an awesome producer). the end result: amusing, upbeat and catchy tunes that i don't want to stop listening to.

rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ yep, still girl-crushing on her.

last pair of 2009

i only bought 8 pairs of shoes this year. last year, it was 16. i guess it balances out to an average of 12 per year between last year and this year.
i got these back in early november. they are open toe, mary jane sling shoes in patent wine with a 3¼ inch heel. and uber comfy.

delayed update

here is the long awaited photobooth picture. despite the large numbers counting down, in case it's not clear, i wasn't pay attention. but it was fun fun fun!!

congrats, serena & tom!!

i have known serena since ucsd (in 1998). she is one of my many good friends i know from alpha phi omega (aphio). through aphio, she was also one of about 10 house/apartmentmates during my years in san diego. and though i lived with her for a mere quarter (taking over anne's room), she is really the only former roommate i am still in contact with. but not only that, i consider her a truly great friend. despite the fact that we don't talk for weeks or months at a time, we still find the time to catch up every so often. i actually met tom back in 2003 when i went to boston to visit serena. they were friends at the time but he always seemed pretty nice.

this is me with my lovely sister at joe & carl's house before being dropped off at the hotel to catch the party bus.on the left: me & lisa just getting on the party bus.
on the right: the party bus, broken down in the middle of the street after smoke came out of the back.
this picture was taken from my seat at the reception. it was a fantastic view of the stage and the very cool jazz band that played all night long. it was exciting to be placed at such a fantastic table with nice people and not be all the way in the back somewhere random. thanks serena (& tom)!
to the left: after the unveiling of the, wait for it... candy bar!!
to the right: the aftermath... a couple of sad empty jars.
finally, right before lisa and i took our leave, this is me with the beautiful couple. the food was a chinese banquet and trust me, i've had my fill of this cuisine. but i've never really had chinese banquet food served to me. and the food here was delicious. not to forget, the very cute older chinese lady serving us was genuinely sweet and so efficient.

we had a wonderful time. unfortunately, i wasn't feeling well and didn't get to bust a move on the dance floor. but coming soon... our silly photo booth picture.

warning: don't click on this image...

... or, you'll get lost in peanut butter cookieland.

in the music x3

venue: ARTiculate @ evergreen valley college
artist: thao nguyen + the get down stay down
who: ro & his library friends
when: 25 september 2009 (friday)

ro told me about thao nguyen before. but only recently, i listened to her last cd, we brave been stings and all and still can't stop listening. the songs are upbeat, fun, and sassy. i am always movin' and shakin' when i am listening to her. in my car. walking around. sitting on the shuttle. in my office. it didn't matter, i couldn't help myself. she is just so cool. so i was extremely excited to see her play live, in san jose. its funny, i have a dear college friend with the same name too.

rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ i think i am girl-crushing on her.

venue: great american music hall
artist: the pains of being pure at heart, the depreciation guild, and cymbals eat guitar
who: john
when: 18 september 2009 (friday)
doors open at 8:00p

i hadn't planned on going to this show but my good friend mien (in chicago) called me up for a favor, could i show her friend john, around on his first trip to sf? so i said sure, of course!

i wasn't sure what he wanted to do so i gave him options on what i wanted to do. :) he said he was up for anything. we got tickets first, then headed over to tommy's joynt for some grub. it's world famous but the mac & cheese wasn't quite up to par. nothing compares to lisa's mac & cheese. we headed back over around 11p thinking we avoided the openings. but caught the depreciation guild who weren't half bad. and the pains of being pure at heart were quite good.

not only were the bands pretty good but so was the company. john was so nice and fun that he & i stayed out pretty late that night. we ended up at sparky's for pancakes and americanos. m-m-m, good. actually, i spent much of the weekend with him.

rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

venue: café du nord
artist: trashcan sinatras & brookville
who: cousin nina
when: 31 july 2009 (friday)
doors open at 8:00p

even though this was my 7th trashcans show, this is the first time i am rating them! strange, isn't it? though, due to a very traumatic misadventure (ie little man mccreepy), i can't bear to give them 5 ♥s. the last time i saw them was back in 2005. it's hard to believe it was over 4 years ago. and i'd seen them 6 times within a period of 2 years.

luckily, my dear cousin nina was there to save me and salvage what was left of the night.

rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ merci, nina!

tiramisu

i've made tiramisu since 1998, when i learned how to make it on a trip to europe in milano, italy. my friend elena showed us how to make it for this traditional italian dinner we had back in august of 1998.

anyway, it evolved into this tiramisu cake (this one has baileys in it instead of the usual kahlua i put in it, though it wouldn't look any different). next time, i'll take a picture of a slice...

my new red suede shoes!

from nordstrom's anniversary sale last month...
can you believe it? i only got one pair of shoes!

tsh levels finalized, finally

last april (2008), i had my last official body scan for my thyroid cancer. and in june, it was official. i'd beat cancer. yet, a problem still remained. my tsh levels were too high. while the main problem was gone, there was still something to worry about. it took 13 months, 28 days and 4 dosage adjustments. as of today (as declared earlier by dr. bruhn), my tsh levels are perfect. just where the good doc wants them. my next appointment with him is a year from now.

i think it's due time to celebrate in style, don't you?

come a little closer

i'm still working on my frosting decoration skills. these are mini chocolate cupcakes with peanut butter frosting. and to top off, are actual mini reese's peanut butter cups. they are super adorable. they don't taste that bad either. anyone want some?

anyone want some freshly made sweet bread?

this amish friendship bread (with dried cranberries) took 10 days to make. this came out of the oven just 10 minutes ago.
does it look yummy?

more shoes

my new shoes! these are white patent leather with a 3½" cork wedge heel. they are super comfy but as my cousin says, they better be for what you pay for them! aren't they sexy?

song for the leftovers

venue: the independent
artist: a camp, gentleman reg & rubies
who: betty
when: 14 june 2009 (sunday)
doors open at 7:30p

i first heard a camp in 2001, an ex put their songs on a mix cd. when he asked me if i knew who the band was, i said, sounds like... nina persson from the cardigans. and i was right. :) except, it's her side project with her husband, nathan larson, formerly the lead guitarist in shudder to think. the combination produces tenderness. their songs are slow & sweet, like young love. remember those days? i don't. :p

betty and i actually saw the cardigans at popscene back in may 2004 (predates this blog). it was so crowded that night, i spent most of it hanging out with chris (my former popscene bt) at the back bar. there was a random guy dancing back there. at one point, he stopped to tell me i was beautiful. something i wasn't used to. i told him he was just drunk. i'd just started seeing ted and got tricked into kissing chris the first time, that night. wow, i forgot about that... this old man tricked me into it. really!

the rubies was the first opening. at first, we weren't getting into them but then, we heard the second song and it was a lot better. they felt very pop candy 80's. reminded me a bit of call & response. the band had a strange dynamic. the keyboardist/vocalist was this chubby girl. their bassist is a very tall and masculine woman who was going for a very unflattering 70's look. the guitarist would have been cute if it weren't for his douche bag faux-hawk. and i couldn't really see the drummer. next up were gentleman reg, coming to us all the way from toronto. the vocalist, reg vermue's singing style was reminiscent of paul heaton back when he was the housemartins, except much more effeminate. way more. turns out, he also speaks that way. despite that, they weren't too bad. i actually enjoyed their set. i told him so when i passed him by on the way back from the restroom.

there is something so sweet about a band lead by a married couple, despite how i feel about marriage. there is also something wonderful about nina persson. they had this 20's and 30's theme going. it's always nice when bands put extra effort in their performances, whether it be their appearances or something else. her voice is sensational and beautiful and just lovely. they played all the great old songs (from their first cd) that i loved. ended their encore with my favorite song by them, song for the leftovers. i also really enjoy their latest cd (colonia, got the download on amazon for $2!). it is shows like this one that makes me so so happy.

afterwards, they invited everyone to meet them at the merch table. i never know what to say during these situations so i skipped it. however, betty was first in line and had them sign her t-shirt. she said they were really nice. :)

rating: ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ love has left the room